Clare, just read your weekend blog! I can't imagine how you are feeling and i won't even say I know what you are going through ... except when it comes to the ciggies! I know that EVERY situation is a major crisis when you are quitting and you think if I had a smoke i'd feel better, but you know you won't. Not only will the crap that's been going on still be there (as a guy i'd tell them both to get a grip) but you'll feel bad because you let someone else BULLY you into something you don't want to do. Stay in close contact with all of us Clare, even if it's a wobble you need reassured out of or it's just to slag off the men in your life!!!! You know we're here for you right? Keep the faith! Stuart
Clare, how are you doing? I saw you were having a hard time, are you ok? If i could give you one mental picture that I carry with me it's this:
cigarettes are like a school bully, You know they're not good for your health but you end up doing what they want and it takes real strength to put them in their place. Get angry with them and fight back, the time for settling for a quiet life is over!